Popular Nigerian rapper Emeka Akumefule, better known as Blaqbonez, has once again sparked online discussion after sharing his candid thoughts about marriage, fidelity, and the reality of long-term relationships.
The rapper, known for his outspoken nature and bold opinions, made the revelation during an appearance on the In My Opinion podcast. During the conversation, Blaqbonez admitted that he would be comfortable being in an open marriage, claiming that sexual exclusivity is not a requirement for him in a committed relationship.
He explained that as people grow older in marriage, passion tends to decline, making emotional connection more valuable than physical intimacy. “I don’t mind having an open marriage,” he stated confidently.
Blaqbonez explains why he supports open marriage
The Chocolate City artist elaborated that many couples experience a natural decline in intimacy as their relationship matures. For him, what matters most is trust and emotional loyalty rather than physical exclusivity.
According to Blaqbonez, he understands that his wife might desire physical satisfaction when he’s away working or touring, and he wouldn’t feel upset about it. “Most married couples don’t keep having the same amount of s+x they had at the beginning; it naturally reduces. So, if someone else is satisfying her s+xually while I’m out hustling or touring, that’s fine. There’s more to marriage than s+x,” he said.
He went on to stress that emotional intimacy and connection are what truly sustain relationships. “I don’t mind her sleeping with someone else as long as she remains dedicated to me emotionally,” he added.
The rapper also mentioned that it would be hard for another man to replace the bond he shares with his partner, describing their connection as something deeper than physical attraction. “It would be hard for another man to match the emotional connection I’ve built. They might not even make her laugh like I do,” he said. “In fact, if I ever get married, I’d prefer we have two separate rooms and only meet when we want intimacy.”
Mixed reactions trail Blaqbonez’s take on marriage
Blaqbonez’s unconventional views quickly went viral, stirring heated debate across social media platforms. While some fans praised him for being realistic and emotionally mature, others criticized his stance, arguing that open marriages often lead to broken homes and emotional detachment.
Several netizens expressed surprise at how casually he dismissed traditional notions of marital fidelity. “He’s being honest, but I doubt many people would accept such an arrangement in real life,” one user commented. Another wrote, “That kind of mindset can’t work in African homes; our culture values commitment and faithfulness.”
Despite the backlash, Blaqbonez stood firm in his belief that every relationship should be built on mutual understanding and openness rather than strict societal expectations. His comments have once again positioned him at the center of conversation about modern love and the evolving definitions of marriage.
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I don't care, its open to her – Blaqbonez says wouldn’t mind an open marriage
Nigerian rapper Emeka Akumefule, popularly known as Blaqbonez, has revealed that he would consider an open marriage, stating that sexual exclusivity is not the defining element of a committed… pic.twitter.com/ml52G16x7q
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