A Nigerian man, Festus Awolowo Etame, an Isoko native from Delta State, has once again captured public attention after sending a detailed and heartfelt marriage proposal to award-winning singer Tiwa Savage. The proposal, dated Wednesday, October 23, 2025, comes barely a week after his initial attempt, highlighting his persistence and deep admiration for the Afrobeats superstar.
‘I’m Not Coming to Chop and Run’ – Festus [b]Says
Festus, who identifies himself as a Management Consultant, Author, and Publisher, expressed his strong desire to make Tiwa Savage his wife, stressing that his intentions are genuine and not motivated by fame, wealth, or social recognition. In his letter, he carefully outlined his thoughts on monogamous marriage, the importance of a Christian union, and how a faithful husband could provide peace, love, and satisfaction in life.
He specifically advised the singer to avoid becoming a second or third wife, citing his own experience growing up in a polygamous home with 19 siblings, where rivalries and conflicts among wives created a challenging environment. Festus argued that entering a polygamous union could harm her career and musical inspiration, and he urged her to marry a man willing to fully love her and adopt her son as his own.
‘I Can Satisfy You and Give You Peace’ – Festus Promises
In the letter, Festus emphasized that a monogamous marriage would bring Tiwa peace, long-lasting love, and personal fulfillment. He further touched on sexual satisfaction, claiming that a devoted husband could provide ultimate spousal contentment, which he believes is essential for peace of mind. He assured her that his proposal is unlike others who might have fleeting or insincere intentions, stating, “Yes, there are tens of marriage proposals flooding your Internet space. Most of these guys are out to chop and run. For me, I’m coming in to continuously water the garden. I’m going to add, not reduce, to your successes.”
Festus also provided insight into his personal life, sharing that he is educated, having attended the Universities of Benin and Lagos, and is a widower, having lost his late wife in 2019. He underscored his values as a Christian who does not drink, smoke, or womanize, and reassured Tiwa that he respects her individuality and temperament, noting the compatibility of their personalities despite differences.
In his letter, Festus encouraged Tiwa to marry a Christian and avoid men who already have multiple wives, warning that polygamous unions often harbor hidden conflicts. He expressed hope that God would guide her in making the right choice, ending the proposal with a heartfelt plea for her consideration and a prayer for her well-being.
Tiwa Savage’s ‘Second Wife’ Confession
Festus’ proposal appears to have been inspired by Tiwa Savage’s recent remarks on marriage. During an appearance on the Lip Service podcast, the singer admitted that she might be open to becoming a second wife, given that many of her potential suitors are older or already married. She said: “I’m like a sugar mama, but I don’t want to be. If I meet somebody who can really marry me, they are either in their 50s or already married. So, I don’t know. Maybe I can be a second wife. I think so. I could be a second wife.”
Tiwa, previously married to music executive Tunji Balogun (TBillz), emphasized that she would not cause trouble as a co-wife and would respect the position of any existing spouse.
Public Reactions Trail the Unusual Proposal
The latest proposal from Festus has sparked widespread reactions online, with many Nigerians amused and intrigued by his audacity and detailed reasoning. Observers have noted the unusual nature of his heartfelt appeal, which blends personal life advice, religious values, and career considerations, making it stand out from typical celebrity proposals.
As of now, Tiwa Savage has not publicly responded to Festus’ letter, leaving fans and the public eager for her reaction to the bold and persistent proposal.
Background: Tiwa Savage’s Journey Through Love and Fame
Tiwa Savage, born Tiwatope Omolara Savage, was married to Tunji Balogun in 2013, and the marriage ended in 2018. Their union produced one son. Since her divorce, Tiwa has concentrated on her music career and global brand, gaining recognition as one of Africa’s leading female artists. Her journey through love, fame, and personal growth has continually attracted public attention, making any developments in her personal life widely covered by the media.
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