During a recent interview on Channels Television, Senator Ned Nwoko, who represents Delta North Senatorial District, stirred nationwide debate with his unapologetic comments on marriage and polygamy. Known for his large family and open support of traditional marital structures, Nwoko reiterated his stance that “every man should marry more than one wife”, arguing that doing so brings balance, stability, and harmony in relationships.
The senator, who is married to Nollywood star Regina Daniels and three other wives, shared his personal philosophy on why polygamy is not only natural but also beneficial in a society like Nigeria’s. His remarks immediately went viral, sparking both admiration and criticism online.
Nwoko defends polygamy with a humorous analogy
When asked how he manages a peaceful home with multiple wives, Nwoko gave a metaphorical response that drew laughter. “I’m sure you have a wife and also have girlfriends. Just imagine me telling you to stand on one leg—you know how difficult that is,” he said, smiling.
“But to stand on two, three, or four legs is much more balanced. That’s the example. I feel sorry for those who have only one wife because it’s difficult to stand on one leg.” His analogy quickly became a trending topic across social platforms, with users sharing memes and jokes about “four-legged marriages.”
Asked whether his beliefs conflict with biblical teachings, the senator replied confidently, “Well, the Old Testament does, and I am a man of the Old Testament and also a man of faith.”
Reveals he has no plans to take more wives
When pressed about whether he intends to expand his family, Nwoko chuckled and said, “That’s not what we are here for.” However, he added that if given the chance to start again, he would still choose polygamy. “Of course, yes. I’ll do the same thing again and again,” he affirmed.
Addressing his preference for youthful women, he remarked casually, “That’s just the way it is and the way it should be,” a statement that further fueled online discussions about age gaps and gender expectations in marriages.
Denies domestic vi%lence allegations
In the same interview, the senator dismissed circulating allegations of domestic vi%lence, calling them baseless. “No, come on. I’m not a vi%lent person. I respect my wives, I love them, and I love my kids. So, no, not at all,” he stated firmly.
Nwoko, a lawyer, businessman, and politician, emphasized that his household operates on mutual respect and structure. He said his wives coexist peacefully because of his ability to provide and maintain fairness, something he claims is often missing in monogamous marriages.
Public reactions and heated online debate
Following the interview, social media was flooded with mixed reactions. While some praised Nwoko for embracing African traditions and promoting cultural authenticity, others accused him of using privilege and wealth to justify polygamy.
DamiTheCooker wrote: “In a country where 80% of its people live below $1 daily. Misplaced priority! How do you intend to reduce overpopulation? Guess he thinks everyone is a senator and controls billions of naira just like him.”
Ayobami added: “That’s the rule. Marry one if you love your wife, marry more than one if you love yourself.”
Omotola commented: “A man drowning in his own household chaos now thinks he’s qualified to give marriage advice? There’s nothing noble about polygamy, it’s greed and insecurity painted as tradition.”
John added: “You think every man has access to public funds like you to acquire wives? Every man doesn’t have the capacity to manage the mental stress of many wives.”
NaijaBudgetBro quipped: “Senator is comparing marriage to standing on four legs. No wonder the country is crawling — some people confuse balance with chaos.”
Abubakar Sanni said: “Stop giving this n*nsense advice online. Do you think a poor man can marry more than one wife? I don’t understand.”
Calls for cultural reflection
Despite the backlash, some traditionalists applauded Nwoko’s comments, claiming that polygamy has long been part of African culture and should not be viewed solely through a Western lens. Others, however, urged him to use his platform to advocate for gender equality, education, and economic empowerment rather than multiple marriages.
The senator has not issued any follow-up statement since the interview, but his remarks continue to dominate online discussions, dividing opinions on whether polygamy is a symbol of cultural pride or a reflection of outdated patriarchal norms.
As the conversation grows, Nwoko’s name remains at the center of yet another national debate — one that goes beyond marriage and delves into deeper questions of morality, modernity, and the evolving meaning of love and partnership in Nigeria.