Renowned Nigerian rapper, Erigga, has opened up about his stance on polygamy, emphasizing that the practice often brings emotional pain and tension to women and children involved.
In a candid conversation with Yanga FM Lagos, the Warri-born artist shared insights from his personal life, revealing that growing up in a polygamous household significantly influenced his decision to avoid such a lifestyle entirely. Erigga recounted observing the struggles, jealousy, and competition among his father’s multiple wives, and how it affected him and his siblings emotionally and mentally.
He explained that while polygamy might appear glamorous or appealing from an outsider’s perspective, the reality is often far from the picture-perfect image. “It may look glamorous from the outside, but deep down, it breeds hurt, jealousy, and silent competition among wives and children,” he stated, reflecting on the long-term consequences he witnessed firsthand.
Erigga emphasized the imbalance in polygamous relationships, pointing out that the man typically avoids the emotional strain, while women and children bear the brunt of conflicts and misunderstandings. “I am trying not to be like my father. I don’t like polygamy; one person always gets hurt, which is the woman. There’s never a polygamous situation where the man gets hurt; it’s always the woman and the kids,” he noted.
The rapper further shared that his preference for monogamy stems from his belief that one wife ensures a more peaceful and stable family environment. Managing multiple wives often leads to divided attention, resentment, and emotional chaos, which can negatively affect family dynamics and child upbringing. He highlighted that true peace and harmony in a home are fostered through mutual love, respect, and understanding between partners rather than by accumulating multiple spouses.
Erigga also encouraged men to embrace simplicity in relationships, advising that focusing on one woman allows for stronger emotional connections and healthier family relationships. He stressed that societal notions of power or prestige associated with having multiple wives are often misleading and overshadow the real emotional cost borne by women and children in polygamous households.
Sharing his personal experience, the rapper reminded listeners that the emotional scars left by polygamy can have long-lasting effects on children, influencing their perceptions of love, family, and personal relationships. He advocated for awareness, understanding, and conscious decisions when it comes to marriage choices, urging young men to prioritize emotional well-being and family harmony over societal expectations.
Whether or not one agrees with his perspective, Erigga’s candid discussion sheds light on a critical social issue, offering insight into the often-hidden challenges of polygamous families. His message serves as both a personal testimony and a cautionary narrative for men considering multiple marriages.
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"I am trying not to be like my father… I don't like polygamy; one person gets hurt which is the woman. There's never a polygamous situation where the man gets hurts; it's always the woman and the kids."
– ERIGGA pic.twitter.com/4rIuDdyFGp
— @𝗼𝗻𝗲𝗷𝗼𝗯𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗯𝗼𝘆 (@OneJoblessBoy) October 28, 2025