Popular Nigerian Afrobeat queen, Tiwa Savage, has once again captured the attention of fans worldwide after revealing her candid views on marriage and relationships, stating boldly that she wouldn’t mind being a second wife if the situation brings her peace and respect.
The award-winning singer and songwriter made this revelation during a recent chat on the American podcast, Lip Service, where she opened up about her outlook on love, emotional stability, and the evolving nature of relationships in today’s society.
Speaking with confidence, Tiwa explained that most of the men who admire her are either already married or older. Rather than dismissing such possibilities outright, she said she would consider becoming a second wife — but only under the condition that mutual respect, harmony, and peace exist in the relationship.
According to her, being a second wife doesn’t have to come with conflict or jealousy, emphasizing that maturity and understanding can make any relationship work. In her words:
“I can be a second wife, but I will do it with respect. I believe the first wife will also appreciate that, and she’s going to love me. I won’t stress her.”
The “Somebody’s Son” crooner went on to explain that her perspective comes from a place of peace, not desperation, noting that she values emotional balance more than social expectations.
Her revelation quickly stirred a heated debate online, as fans and critics flooded social media with mixed reactions. While some applauded her honesty and emotional maturity, others criticized her statement, arguing that it could send the wrong message to her younger audience and female fans who look up to her.
Many also pointed out that Tiwa Savage has always been known for speaking her truth, no matter how controversial, which has earned her both admiration and backlash over the years.
It’s not the first time the singer’s personal life has been in the spotlight. Tiwa Savage was previously married to music executive Tunji Balogun (Teebillz), with whom she shares a son, Jamil. Their marriage ended in 2018 amid public drama and allegations of infidelity, which Tiwa addressed openly in past interviews.
Since then, the singer has focused on her career and motherhood, building a global brand that has earned her international recognition and respect as one of Africa’s most powerful female entertainers.
Her latest revelation has reignited conversations about polygamy, modern relationships, and whether love should be defined by societal norms or personal happiness. Some supporters commended her courage for normalizing honest conversations about love and reality, while others insisted that being a “second wife” goes against traditional values of commitment and exclusivity.
Regardless of the controversy, Tiwa Savage remains unbothered, continuing to live authentically while breaking barriers both in music and in personal expression. Her statement has not only fueled debate but also showcased her as a woman unafraid to challenge conventional ideas of love and marriage in modern African society.
Watch the viral clip of Tiwa Savage’s statement below…
"I don't know… maybe I can be a second wife. I could be a second wife."
– Tiwa Savage pic.twitter.com/eWqQAj2Sba
— @𝗼𝗻𝗲𝗷𝗼𝗯𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗯𝗼𝘆 (@OneJoblessBoy) October 17, 2025